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What is wrong with BDSM? This is how I see it affecting practitioners (Part 2)

< C) Ways in which BDSM affects mainly the practitioners C1) It creates/ maintain/s encourages a situation where the hurting person asks to be hurt again, and often even hurt worse A hurting person who is unambiguously against what happened … Continue reading

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What is wrong with BDSM? This is how I see it affecting society (Part 1)

Trigger warning: Sexual violence I never met a kinkster who wants to honestly discuss BDSM. They never want to talk about pain. They do not want to tell me what tops/ doms/ sadists get out of BDSM. They only give … Continue reading

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Does BDSM give society wise messages about consent?

There is more than one way to diminish the importance of something. Compare: a) “Money is unimportant, don’t complain about your poverty.” b) “Money is very important. I will give you 5 cents – then stop complaining about your poverty.”

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Who treats sex as dirty?

Not so long ago, I tried to tell a woman what I find wrong with pornography and BDSM, as I sometimes do “Don’t tell me you are one of those people who think all sex is dirty”, she spat back. Who thinks sex … Continue reading

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